Episode 168

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13th Feb 2026

The Dead Know Nothing Where They Are - Message 2 - Let the Dead Bury Their Dead

The central theme of this episode revolves around the profound exhortation to prioritize one’s calling over attachments to the past, as encapsulated in Jesus' directive: "Let the dead bury their own dead." This admonition underscores the necessity of relinquishing the burdens of bygone eras that impede spiritual progress and obedience. We explore the pervasive tendency to cling to memories and identities that no longer serve us, often masquerading as duty or loyalty. By highlighting the dangers of delaying obedience and the idolatry of past pain, we encourage a decisive shift toward forward movement in one’s spiritual journey. Ultimately, this message invites listeners to embrace the new opportunities God presents, thereby fostering a life characterized by clarity, prosperity, and purpose. In the episode "Let the Dead Bury Their Dead," a profound exploration of spiritual obedience and the relinquishment of past burdens takes center stage. The speaker initiates the discussion by referencing Matthew 8:22, where Jesus poignantly instructs a hesitant follower to prioritize following Him over fulfilling traditional cultural obligations. This directive sets the tone for an episode that aims to dismantle the excuses that often bind individuals to their past. The episode elucidates how the desire to honor familial commitments can sometimes disguise a deeper reluctance to engage in one’s spiritual journey. As the episode unfolds, the speaker articulates the essential message that past experiences, particularly negative ones, should not serve as a compass for future decisions. Drawing from Isaiah 43:18-19, the speaker emphasizes the necessity of forgetting former things and not dwelling in emotional states that hinder progress. The notion that worshipping the past equates to idolatry is thoroughly examined, challenging listeners to confront their emotional ties to memories and disappointments that inhibit their growth. The speaker’s firm but compassionate tone encourages listeners to recognize the futility of holding onto past identities and to embrace their new selves in Christ, as articulated in 2 Corinthians 5:17. In practical terms, the episode provides listeners with actionable insights, urging them to cease resurrecting past grievances and to detach from the need for approval from those who are no longer present in their lives. The speaker concludes with a heartfelt prayer, imploring God for the courage to move forward and the wisdom to discern what must be released. This episode not only challenges the status quo of spiritual complacency but also serves as an empowering call to action for anyone seeking to deepen their relationship with God by stepping into the freedom that comes with obedience.

Takeaways:

  1. The call to follow Jesus must take precedence over all cultural obligations and attachments.
  2. Obedience to God's calling requires a decisive break from the past and its burdens.
  3. Nostalgia for past pain can hinder spiritual growth and lead to idolatry of memory.
  4. It is essential to stop resurrecting forgiven sins to fully embrace God's grace and move forward.
Transcript
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Welcome back to the series Let the dead bury their dead.

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In the last episode we confronted consulting the graveyard.

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Today we confront something more subtle and more common.

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Living people acting like mourners, still carrying what God already buried.

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And Jesus says one sentence that cuts through all the excuses Matthew 8:22 tells us.

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But Jesus said to him, follow me and let the dead be.

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Bury their dead.

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That sounds harsh.

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Until you understand what Jesus is doing.

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He is separating calling from cultural captivity.

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He is separating assignment from attachment.

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Say this with me.

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My calling comes first.

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Say it again.

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My calling comes first.

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A man comes to Jesus.

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He says, lord, I will follow you.

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But he adds one word, first.

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First, let me go bury my father.

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Now honour matters, Family matters.

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But Jesus is exposing a deeper issue in that culture.

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Bury my father often didn't mean my father died this morning.

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It often meant, let me wait until my father dies someday.

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Let me secure my inheritance, let me close my obligations, and then I'll follow you.

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Delay disguised as duty.

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That's what the translation was.

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Obedience postponed into never.

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If you keep saying first, you may never say follow.

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This is our second message.

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Let the dead bury their dead.

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Let's go into the first point.

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Dead seasons cannot guide living futures.

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Do not dwell on the past.

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See, I am doing a new thing.

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Notice God didn't say, pretend it never happened.

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He said, don't dwell there.

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Some of you are saved, but still living in a mental museum.

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You've got exhibits.

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My worst year.

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My betrayal season.

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My failure.

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Chapter.

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The version of me before I met Christ.

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And you keep walking people through it.

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But here's the truth.

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Dead seasons do not carry fresh oil.

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A closed door is not a destination.

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Say this.

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I will not camp where God has moved.

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Say it again.

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I will not camp where God has moved.

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Worshiping the past.

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Pain is still idolatry.

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Let's talk about the idol.

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No.

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Nobody calls an idol the past.

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Some people don't pray to ancestors.

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They pray to memories.

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They don't consult mediums.

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They consult old conversations.

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They don't burn incense.

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They burn emotional energy, replaying scenes.

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And the devil loves it because it keeps you powerless in the present.

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Philippians 3, 13, 14 says, forgetting what is behind and straining toward what is ahead.

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I press on.

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Now listen.

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Forgetting here doesn't mean you have amnesia.

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It means you refuse to let the past hold the steering wheel.

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The past is a classroom, not a landlord.

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And let me go further.

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If God forgave it, why are you memorializing it?

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If God buried it, why are you digging it up?

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If God delivered you, why are you still visiting the prison like it's home?

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Some of us are loyal to our pain because pain feels familiar.

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But also familiar is not the same as faithful.

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Prosperity requires forward obedience.

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Here's why prosperity enters the message.

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God's prosperity.

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Biblical prosperity moves with obedience.

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You cannot step into promise while hugging a grave.

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Jesus didn't say follow me.

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Later he said, follow me.

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Because prosperity is not just money.

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Prosperity is clarity.

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Prosperity is peace, authority, faithfulness, multiplication, stability, favor with God and man.

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And the past threatens all that you have when you worship it.

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God cannot expand what you refuse to release.

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Think about Israel.

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They came out of Egypt physically, but Egypt stayed in their minds.

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So they kept saying, we're back in Egypt.

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We had at least in Egypt.

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And the wilderness stretched longer than necessary.

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When you keep praising dead places, you delay living promises.

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Let's look at some practical application as what does let the dead bury their dead look like today?

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Stop resurrecting forgiven sins if you and your spouse resolved it, stop digging it up.

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If you repented, stop punishing yourself.

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Conviction leads to repentance.

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Condemnation leads to paralysis.

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Romans 8:1.

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Therefore now there is now no condemnation for those who are in Christ Jesus.

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Stop living for dead approval.

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Some of you are trying to impress people who moved on, or people who passed on, or people who never clapped for you.

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Anyway, you don't need applause from the dead to obey the living God.

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Stop returning to dead identities.

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You are not who you were.

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2nd Corinthians 5:17.

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If anyone is in Christ, the new creation has come.

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If God calls you new, don't keep introducing yourself as old.

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Stop romanticizing dead places.

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You can honor where you came from without living there.

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Nostalgia becomes witchcraft when it controls you.

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Now.

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Jesus is not being cruel, he's being kind.

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Because if you keep delaying obedience, you miss your moment.

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Proverbs 27:1.

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Do not boast about tomorrow.

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Tomorrow is not guaranteed, and obedience has an expiry date.

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Say this.

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Delayed obedience is disobedience.

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Again, delayed obedience is disobedience.

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Now here the encouragement.

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God is not angry that you have a past.

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He's calling you to stop living in it.

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Here are some questions for reflection.

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Ask yourself, what am I carrying that God's already ended?

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What do I keep saying first and using it to delay obedience?

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Am I more loyal to my memories than my mission?

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What dead thing do I need to let bury itself today?

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Be honest.

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Freedom starts here.

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Let us pray.

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Father, in the name of Jesus, I repent for every place I have delayed obedience.

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Forgive me for dressing fear as responsibility and hesitation as honor.

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Today, I release dead seasons.

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I release dead identities.

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I release dead shame.

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I release dead arguments.

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I release dead guilt.

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I choose to follow you fully.

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Not halfway, not later, not when it's convenient.

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Give me the courage to move forward, the wisdom to discern what must be released, and the grace to obey quickly.

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I will not dwell in the past.

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I will walk with you or you think in Jesus name.

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Amen.

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In the next episode, we will be talking about the God of the living and true prosperity.

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We're going to talk about resurrection, life, grave clothes, and covenant wealth that doesn't come with sorrow.

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If Jesus said follow, stop negotiating with the grave.

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