Episode 97

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8th Feb 2025

The Devil's Not Your Scapegoat: Own Your Choices

The principal theme of today's discourse centers on the notion of personal accountability, specifically in the context of confession and the tendency to attribute blame to external forces, particularly the devil. We delve into the age-old practice of deflection, as exemplified by Adam and Eve in the Garden of Eden, who, upon committing the first sin, immediately sought to absolve themselves by shifting responsibility onto others. This phenomenon persists into the present day, where individuals frequently excuse their misdeeds by invoking the devil’s influence, thus neglecting the imperative of personal responsibility for one’s actions. We emphasize that confession serves not as an act of groveling, but rather as a pathway to spiritual liberation, allowing individuals to confront their failings and seek divine assistance. Ultimately, we encourage listeners to abandon the role of victimhood and embrace the practice of honest confession, recognizing that grace awaits those who take ownership of their shortcomings.

The podcast episode delves into the pressing subject of personal accountability, particularly in the context of Christian faith. The speaker initiates the discourse by referencing the age-old tendency of individuals to deflect blame, a behavior that dates back to the biblical figures of Adam and Eve. The narrative illustrates how, throughout history, humanity has resorted to this blame-shifting mechanism, often attributing their transgressions to external forces, notably the devil. This tendency is paralleled with contemporary examples, wherein individuals rationalize their misdeeds by claiming diabolical influence, thereby neglecting the importance of self-reflection and confession. The speaker emphasizes that confession serves not merely as a ritualistic admission of guilt, but rather as a pathway to liberation and spiritual cleansing. By reframing the act of confession as akin to performing one’s spiritual laundry, the speaker advocates for an honest confrontation with one’s sins, urging listeners to recognize their own agency in their actions instead of attributing their shortcomings to malevolent external forces.

In a further exploration of the theme of accountability, the episode presents an insightful examination of scriptural references that underscore the necessity of resisting temptation and recognizing personal culpability. The speaker invokes the wisdom of the apostle James, who articulates a clear directive: to resist the devil and he will flee. Yet, a critical observation is made regarding the paradox that arises when individuals continuously blame the devil for their missteps; such behavior effectively undermines the act of resistance. Instead of empowering oneself to confront personal shortcomings, the act of blaming fosters a victim mentality, thereby stifling spiritual growth. Through poignant anecdotes and relatable illustrations, the speaker elucidates how confessions can serve as a transformative practice, enabling individuals to relinquish the burdens of guilt and shame that often accompany the act of wrongdoing.


Ultimately, the episode culminates in a call to action for the audience, urging a shift from a mindset of blame to one of accountability and grace. The speaker posits that grace is not merely an abstract concept but a tangible force that can facilitate healing and restoration. By encouraging listeners to embrace confession as a means of fostering a deeper relationship with the divine, the speaker invites a reexamination of personal beliefs and behaviors. The episode resounds with an empowering message: that individuals possess the capacity to take ownership of their actions and that divine grace is readily available for those willing to confront their sins sincerely. The overarching theme serves as a reminder that one’s spiritual journey is marked not by the evasion of responsibility, but by the courage to acknowledge and learn from one’s mistakes, thereby paving the way for genuine transformation and renewal.

Takeaways:

  • The act of confession is essential for personal liberation and spiritual growth, allowing individuals to confront their shortcomings honestly.
  • Blaming external forces, such as the devil, for our actions detracts from personal responsibility and hinders genuine repentance.
  • The biblical narrative illustrates humanity's tendency to evade accountability, as seen in the Garden of Eden story of Adam and Eve.
  • Understanding that grace transcends our excuses is crucial; it empowers us to seek forgiveness rather than deflect blame onto others.
  • Consistent reflection on our actions fosters integrity, encouraging us to acknowledge our missteps without resorting to the blame game.
  • Embracing confession is akin to a spiritual cleansing; it alleviates the burdens of guilt and restores our relationship with God.
Transcript
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Hey everyone, welcome back to the podcast where we inspire faith and empower lives through the gospel of Jesus Christ.

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Today we're going to get started with a message that I believe is quite important.

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Saints, sinners, and everybody in between.

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Let's get real for a moment.

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Lets get real.

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Wherever it is that you are, raise your hand if you've ever blamed someone else for a mistake you made.

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Adam blamed Eve, Eve blamed the serpent.

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And the serpent, well, he didn't have a leg to stand on, but he sure started a trend.

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Today we're talking about confession, owning our mess and resisting the urge to play pin the sin on the donkey.

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The donkey is the devil.

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Let's rewind to the Garden of Eden where we find the original it's not my fault.

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In Genesis 3, 12, 13, Adam and Eve commit the first sin.

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And what's their response?

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The woman you gave me made me do it and the serpent tricked me.

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Sound familiar?

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Fast forward to:

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Pastor, I yelled at my spouse, but it's the devil's fault.

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I gossiped, but Satan hacked my tongue.

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Brothers and sisters, the devil's got enough on his resume.

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Lets not add our poor choices to his LinkedIn.

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I've heard folks blame the devil for everything from road rage to eating this last slice of pie.

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The devil made me do it.

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No, sister, your sweet tooth made you do it.

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The devil's not that invested in your dessert.

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Let's talk about confession, which is our laundry day, our spiritual laundry day.

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1 John 1, verse 8 to 9.

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In this text, John writes, if we claim to be without sin, we deceive ourselves.

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Let me paraphrase.

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If you say you're perfect, you're either lying or you're Jesus.

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And spoiler alert, you are definitely not Jesus.

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Confession isn't about groveling, it's about freedom.

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It's saying, God, I messed up.

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Help me.

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Imagine if we treated sin like dirty laundry.

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We wouldn't shove it under the bed and say, satan stink bombed my socks.

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No, you'd wash it.

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Confession is handling.

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God is handing God the stain remover of grace.

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and that one lie you told in:

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Time to air it out.

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God's not shocked.

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He's seen it all.

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He sees all.

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He's omniscient, not omnisqueamish.

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Alright brothers and sisters, let's talk about how the devil is very busy, so stop giving him credit.

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James 4, 7, 8.

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Now, in this text, James says, resist the devil and he will flee.

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But here's the thing.

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If you're constantly blaming him, you're not resisting.

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You're giving him a megaphone.

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The devil doesn't need to tempt you to binge watch Netflix instead of praying.

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Your flesh is already on it.

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Sure, Satan's a schemer, but he's not micromanaging your Amazon purchases or your take a lot purchases or your Mr.

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Delivery purchases, is he?

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Most of our sins aren't demonically inspired.

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They're just us being stubborn.

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The devil is not responsible for your road rage when someone cuts you off.

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And your harmless gossip at the Bible study that time you accidentally took home the church's coffee mug.

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Own it, friends.

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The devil's got bigger fish to fry.

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Like when to run to ruin the worship Team Soundcheck the Freedom of My bad in Psalm 32:3 5, David writes, When I kept silent, my bones wasted away.

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Ever tried to hide sin?

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It's exhausting.

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Guilt weighs more than a sock, a sack of bricks.

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But confession?

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It's like spiritual yoga.

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Suddenly you can breathe again.

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Jesus didn't die so we couldn't play the blame game.

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He died so we could say my bad and mean it.

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Now imagine if David tried to blame Bathsheba's bath on the devil.

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Lord, it's not my fault Satan cranked the hot water water heater.

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No, David owned it.

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I have sinned against the Lord.

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Second Samuel, verse 12 to 13.

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12, 13.

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And guess what?

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God forgave him.

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Grace is stronger than our excuses.

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So here's your homework this week.

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Stop auditioning for the role of victim and start practicing confession.

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When you mess up, don't blame the devil, your DNA or your zodiac sign say, God, I'm sorry, I need you.

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Grace is waiting.

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Let us pray.

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Lord, we're quick to point fingers but slow to kneel.

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Forgive us, help us to confess, not to hide.

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And remind us that Satan's not the CEO of our bad decisions.

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We are.

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Thank you for the grace that's bigger than our excuses.

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Amen.

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Now go forth and sin no more.

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But if you do, just remember, the Devil's not your scapegoat.

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He's already got enough goats.

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Sa.

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